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Strive For Balance in Life
2 U( ~5 T j8 C 努力保持生活的平衡 0 s$ y# N6 c# `3 w7 i; T% u7 A0 M3 ?
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. - E+ r) k' m/ A5 p
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
3 K# V9 R) a ` L9 q" U- uBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. 4 A0 n/ M9 d. T/ p4 v# n" ?& R) r# {% j
They will never be the same. : I# @2 [3 F9 ~: U2 y/ ~2 h. U
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? t2 j9 E, J) m1 D1 J
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
8 ]3 m& F% b/ M- oIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
: l5 ~3 _ X0 |4 f( b Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. % h: |" D8 I, ^% J
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
- I, V1 x' v* }# V2 S# q6 d Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. % q; F7 z7 f8 ~, s0 s2 I
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
- [1 H# m6 F' R9 ^* `4 h N& P Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. % M N) E4 U) o2 g% Z, o5 s( l
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 7 D* Z4 ~* w9 X% ]8 T" j
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
$ |/ D* c4 X% e) Q$ G Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ' L6 u' ~7 p5 P
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. 6 u) ~3 c1 x1 T; D
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, $ A& y' U: L, y B) D9 S
but also where you are going. 4 R" O, l8 U8 r+ L3 w" S
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
2 [# G# k8 }6 z* O' E5 t Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
- l9 [7 ^1 Y$ f( {/ V7 z* O Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. ; q* G/ l8 `$ V, V1 ]
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, % i+ l8 E& I7 D3 ^
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 9 G# P7 x' X6 x6 }0 N
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努力保持生活平衡
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4 H! r$ J3 v4 b --布莱恩.戴森
" m* R) W0 U, O. b 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 + |6 i0 P; d* G S
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
( U- u; \7 A: ^" |它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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' W5 v: t" p. b6 I+ `0 \你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ + `) ?: p" z1 L( g C
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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. k) ~9 L- E& ]: n* q( O. P不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 $ j4 ]* w1 r" x1 W2 \6 l& l
- ^, b/ L, y; Q不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 0 {% x* `* W" Y4 @+ {
, {* V8 r- ]5 O+ {( m不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 / `! S: S$ s" T2 O+ s
( Q1 w Y8 _: x4 B当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 : g: o% X4 N3 B$ s/ y5 w
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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# a& ?+ p; Q' B+ {& C; Q% X) U不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 ! l; O1 }+ k1 y$ t
4 F+ m4 j3 ?. q' N9 ?不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 1 v7 h9 q# j) T) }* R* ]
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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5 P0 I5 T! r6 \; u不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 , n6 Y& E, h: S
# M+ ^4 ]! T7 l1 }$ q1 F生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
% O" W, Q7 Z1 {9 T# \4 _2 O昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
$ u0 |" q# u1 i那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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, z# T! D: H4 d( j1 n N （周倩茹编译）
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