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Strive For Balance in Life
5 }5 @- H, B; B6 h3 M8 d 努力保持生活的平衡 * |7 l! P. U. t' L
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. # v9 D5 h) I2 B5 M/ I! J- x
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. ! S, R6 a$ ~* @2 h, ^% G- F
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. , u% z, r* O" E, c3 x* h
They will never be the same. - D+ q& f$ D2 a
8 J% {) z; y& F7 ^/ u You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? " ?$ s. A; {: Q( k' R. [1 ?7 V# q
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. # N& d. o% E$ _: I
It is because we are different that each of us is special. 1 }$ m, W# c& G8 r0 ?
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. ( T0 \) F( g$ C* s3 p. P- w0 P7 v
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 9 \; _* C1 j5 }: [2 Z: d
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. " @, Z6 Y6 H. X/ Q: L
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 2 q% |) j' A& n0 c8 @7 B& R3 S
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. # T9 j3 Z2 n6 I
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
8 Y1 m0 {" J' q# x, f Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
6 Z) l7 s) p5 s) [7 r( a Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
& k4 o4 Y. }: Y2 \The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
/ ?5 D6 m$ F1 r5 `3 Y Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
9 y* e: s# D4 O6 r' [but also where you are going. 4 s$ P7 S; p7 G1 g+ l
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
" l$ J d1 r# h# M7 J% \1 q Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. $ i) F' ` m/ c
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
, B/ w# T! o# m: }9 b: ]& m9 s- FTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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. h g# Z: V6 t0 |8 u --布莱恩.戴森
' s# ]! g' r; |+ | 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 4 E& {* [0 y: [% A
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
6 Y+ X2 u( q4 M- J它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 . x2 @& l+ J- J# `0 |4 _
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 - e$ d z* H: {9 v8 E. j' P
( g3 u, |- d* ~不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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6 S3 Z& o- |8 r4 Y" G5 L7 A9 B当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 ; ~% E* q5 ?( X* d& S8 V
: [5 n0 N/ ]2 w% }不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 , M- V% q) ~0 I- ?( b
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
8 I" s- q% a) Q3 l- j1 O1 u失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 ; h, P3 X( R0 B3 D7 [
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
& {! M8 k% G( K昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
. Z% o+ X' V7 r8 \那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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